Why should men have to pay for a woman\'s responsibility and actions?
Aren\'t we all responsible for our own bodies? Why should I be responsible for a woman\'s body? If a woman has sex, is it my responsibility to make sure SHE takes care of her OWN? No, of course not. I\'m only responsible for myself in that situation. I have no power over what contraception she uses, or what choices she takes after pregnancy. This is all her own. If she wants me to wear a condom, since that would be her only form of BC, then so be it. But if something happens out of that, and she gets pregnant, is that my fault? No, of course not. It\'s her body and her consequences for having sex. I don\'t burden her responsibilities. She has to burden her own.
Why, also, is it totally her choice what to do after conception, as Roe vs. Wade asserts, but then all of a sudden \"becomes\" my responsibility after birth? Are you going to say that: \"Well, there\'s a child now, it needs to be taken care of\". Well, why is there a child now? There\'s a child now because SHE decided SHE wanted one. Did I have a choice? No. Did I sign something saying I will care for any children she has that were made from my donations? No.
You might say: \"Well, zip it up then!\". Well, by that same token, shouldn\'t she not have sex either? Or shouldn\'t she not have any post-conception choices? Should we remove women\'s rights to abortion, and the morning-after pill, etc? I mean, if we are going to be fair, and deny men sex because of what \"could be\", shouldn\'t we make it fair?
If women are going to have choices after conception, shouldn\'t men? Why should we have to pay for their decision? Why must we be held prisoner, awaiting sentencing, due to their decisions? We have to sit and wait for them to decide if they are going to f*ck our life over for 18 years? Is that fair?
No, of course it\'s not fair. Men are treated completely unfairly in the child support arena. Child support needs to STOP, and women need to start taking MORE responsibility for their actions.
It\'s YOUR BODY women. YOU decide if you have a kid. Don\'t expect a man to pay for your f\'n children that they had no say in. You decided to get pregnant because you didn\'t take proper birth control. *THEN* you decide to *FOREGO* the morning after pill. *THEN* you decided to *FOREGO* abortion.
Did *I* decide any of that?
No, because as you would like it, you\'d rather have us sit around and take it up the ass while YOU decide how to run BOTH of our lives.
\"The practical intent and effect of Roe vs. Wade was to permit a woman to engage in intimate sexual activity while, at the same time, choosing not to be a parent, even in the event of a contraceptive failure... that is the fundamental right created by \"Roe.\" The Supreme Court specifically rejected the argument, as put forth by Wade, that a woman could make a procreative choice by abstaining from sex. Clearly, the Court intended for a woman to have a private, intimate life, without sacrificing the right to procreative choice. By its very nature, this is a fundamental right that must apply regardless of biology. It cannot survive both as a fundamental right and as a limited right, limited only to people with internal reproductive systems.\" - National Center For Me
